There are some things that we have to bear with the help of the Lord, and there are other things we have to learn how to leave with Him.  The latter is not as easy as saying or writing it.  Some problems and issues walk with us as awkward companions.  Though they walk with us, they no longer distract us from the true Companion of our soul.  We have to learn to leave with Him those things that never are truly gone from our lives.