Whenever you are building something it always helps if you have an example to go by.  It also helps if you have a helper.  When we are building our life as workers together with God, the Father has sent the Son so that we will have Someone by which we can pattern our lives.  The Spirit in us will testify of Him and keep pointing our lives unceasingly to this likeness that is being uniquely recreated in us.  Read His words, look long at Him in meditation, prayer and communion.  This shaping process is that to which He called you.

“When the Helper comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, that is the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, He will testify about Me”  John 15:26.