Unconditional love is such a beautiful thing. It is such a God thing. A person may have personality traits that rub us the wrong way. To love that person with the love of the One who loves us sets us free. If we think about how undeserving they are and “what they have done”, it won’t happen. But if we will love others like God has loved us in spite of “what we have done”, then that is divine.
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? If you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Matthew 5:43-48 (NASB)