There are no perfect formulas for your spiritual development.  “Each one actually comes out with a new ‘way,’ a new ‘sanctity’ which is all his own, because each one of us has a peculiar vocation to reproduce the likeness of Christ in a mode that is not quite the same as anybody else’s, since no two of us are quite alike” (Thomas Merton).  God works through your uniqueness to do a unique work.  He is your map in these uncharted waters.

“O LORD, You have searched me and known me.  You know when I sit down and when I rise up; You understand my thought from afar.  You scrutinize my path and my lying down, And are intimately acquainted with all my ways.  Even before there is a word on my tongue, Behold, O LORD, You know it all.  You have enclosed me behind and before, And laid Your hand upon me.  Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; It is too high, I cannot attain to it” Psalms 139:1-6 (NASB.)