It is not easy to accept the things that life deals us.  We have to work with what was dealt us or even what we dealt ourselves.  It is your reality for you and God to work through.  Facing “what is” is the first step to solution.  Then know that you have grace-given resources for every life problem.  Our greatest resource is Christ Himself.  He touches our imagination and we see the answer.  Then through His strength we can do all things.

“In my distress I called upon the LORD, and cried to my God: and he did hear my voice out of his temple, and my cry did enter into his ears.” 2 Samuel 22:7 (KJV)