The Father invites us to Himself. He does not overtly or secretly coerce our coming. He knocks and awaits for us to open to Him. What He wants is a foundation to be laid for a relationship of mutual love. God does not force us; it is not the way that He runs His universe. You are invited to a relationship; it is way more wonderful than a ticket to your future, it is your ticket to now. Stop using the Father to get you out of hell and start learning how to love Him, be with Him, embrace Him, and let go of the things that you are holding on to that prevent you from letting Him embrace you.
“Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” James 4:8 (NASB)