We mark people off our list that God is still shaping.  The arrogant, obnoxious and overbearing ones we let go.  I have seen the Lord change the arrogant, always-right person, into a humble vessel of honor.  I have seen the timid and shy made into flaming evangels.  The die is not set so long as the Spirit is working.  Remember the change He wrought in you.

“You once were disobedient to God, but now have been shown mercy.”  Romans 11:30a (NASB)