Christians follow the One who was tested and passed the test.  What have you gone through?  He went through more!  What are the problems with which you have had to deal?  He endured more and greater!  In touch with pain?  His “loud cries and tears” broke the silence of the night more than once.  Where is He when you are going through it?  Right there with you!  Trust Him!  Obey Him as He obeyed his Father!  He will bring you through!

“In the days of his flesh, Jesus offered up prayers and supplications, with loud cries and tears, to the one who was able to save him from death, and he was heard because of his reverent submission. Although he was a Son, he learned obedience through what he suffered; and having been made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him.” Hebrews 5:7-9 (NRSV)