Have you heard those grace filled words, “I forgive you?”  Have you heard that unconditional Voice which says, “I love you?”  Have you heard, “Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest” Matt 11:28 (NRSV)?  We are literally transformed by words of grace from our gracious Lord.  The evidence that we have been transformed by grace is that we can speak words of grace to others.  Until we can do that, our transformation is not yet complete.