Wise parents do not treat all of their children the same.  Yes, the same kind of love, but it is expressed differently because of the different sensitivities of the child.  This can be true of all the people in our lives.  Please be careful in running rough shod over sensitive souls.  Certainly, our Heavenly Father understands this.  His prevenient grace is tailored for us.  This was perfectly expressed in Isaiah’s prophecy about Jesus.  “He will not cry out or raise His voice, Nor make His voice heard in the street.  A bruised reed He will not break, And a dimly burning wick He will not extinguish; He will faithfully bring forth justice” Isaiah 42:2-3 (NASB).