You make time to do what you want to do.  You are becoming what you do.  Habit.  You are doing what you are becoming.  Character.  You are what you are doing.  Habits shape character.  Character changes habits.  If you want your life to change, then it will be necessary to reset your default settings. This cannot be done by willpower alone.  This must happen because you are drawing on God’s grace to walk a new and better path.

“Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.” James 3:13 (NIV)